A banquet is a big thing for the Chinese. if you are invited to a banquet, it is a gesture of friendliness. It also shows the importance your hosts attach to you.

The first thing your host wishes is punctual arrival. After the greetings, you will be led into the lounge for a little chat.

You will be seated to the right side of the host if you are the guest of honor. If you are an ordinary guest, you can proceed to find your own seat---all the tables will be placed with nametags.

At the beginning of the banquet, the host will make a brief speech to welcome the guest. As the guest of honor, you are expected to make a reciprocal speech expressing appreciation and wishes for friendship, cooperation and prosperity.

Chinese table manners include:
1. Don't "jump the gun"---always eat after your host
2. When the host proposes a "gan bei", or "bottoms up," be careful if you are not a good drinker. Extra care should be taken when liquor is served. One way of getting away from such a situation is to tell your host "sui yi", which means "Cheers…but I will drink only a little"
3. Don't forget to toast your host, wishing him or her good health, friendship. Appreciation and the like.

At the end of the banquet, your host may utter typical Chinese modesties such as "Please forgive us for the inconsiderate entertainment," or, "Sorry for the mediocre food." Don't take it seriously. Go ahead and express your appreciation.

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